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Family History - Why Aren't You Writing from the Heart?

12/6/2012

6 Comments

 
I've been thinking (and writing) a lot about what really drives me in this hunt for ancestors that I have been engaged in for some time.  And it comes down to one and only one thing "The Stories of my Ancestors."  Oh yes, there is date research to be performed and evidence to be gathered that GG Uncle Isaac did indeed marry Carrie, and when and where they were married, etc.  But it is their STORIES that matter to me.

So the challenge is - how do I present a story; how do I write it; what information do I include? All that is well and good - but where does the story come from, and what will resonate with the reader? Let's explore this... Below are two examples of photos of the human heart:
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If you want to read about the facts, you would want to have writing akin to the photo on the right - full of facts and technical terms and citations.

If you want to read about the mysteries of the heart as it relates to human emotions and feelings, etc. you would choose the photo on the left.

So what kind of writer are you and what do you aspire your family history stories to be like? I will tell you that only the heart on the left inspires me. I do not like AT ALL family history stories that only provide dates and facts. To me that is like reading the dictionary.

Two examples that I would like to share are as follows:

I wrote a post several months ago about what I called The Memorable Seventeen. It is all text, no photos and full of facts (but not dates), yet it provides a heartfelt message that is what the article is all about : 

Every one of these 17 matters.  Every one of these 17 deserves to be remembered. Documenting their lives and their stories is why family history research is so important - in EVERY family.  If we don't, who will?

So an article can be presented with primarily facts, but does not need to be burdened with birth, marriage, death dates and locations to be interesting.

The second article is one that has much more "flowery" writing and writes about the History of a Family Heirloom. It wraps the story of the heirloom around its possible creation and is definitely heartfelt, and presents little facts.  And the writer closes the article with "... It matches absolutely nothing.  It's worth nothing to most.  And it means the world to me." Certainly a story worth reading and enjoying.

So what is your style? I know what I like to read and I know what I like to write. So think hard and long about your readers and what will motivate them to read your articles and stories - because in addition to honoring your ancestors - you do want people to read about them - don't you?

And furthermore ... what kind of heart do you like?
6 Comments
Caroline Pointer
12/6/2012 04:38:09 am

I like both photos of the heart. They both tell me so much.

And thank you for the shout out! Very much appreciated. =)

~C

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Kenneth R Marks link
12/7/2012 03:09:30 am

Caroline,

Thanks for visiting. And you are welcome regarding the link. It was such a well written story that I had to include it as an example of "heart."

Kenneth

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Rorey Cathcart link
12/6/2012 10:44:40 pm

Sometimes I'm left, others right, at times a mix of both. It depends on the particular article I am trying to write. My thanksgiving article on my family site was all left - devoid of facts. My last article on my husband's family site was all right, because it was a 'state of the research' article. One of the articles I'm working on today combines what I know with why I care. But I can tell you, I admire the folks that can write mostly to the left picture.

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Kenneth R Marks link
12/7/2012 03:14:36 am

Thanks for visiting, Rorey. Both examples if not extreme are of course the way the writer intends. The key in any writing IMO is just not to make it boring. Always write for the audience, not oneself! Right?

Kenneth

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Bernita Allen link
2/13/2014 11:16:14 pm

I really enjoy reading your posts. They are always lively, entertaining and very informative. This post was fantastic. I tend to led with the heart on the left but then I think I'm too emotionally attached, so I try to punch in dates/facts. I just don't let the dates/facts bind me too much. Thank you again for another post that opened my eyes.

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Kenneth R Marks
2/14/2014 10:23:09 pm

Thank you Bernita for the kind words,

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